Relationships

Some people like to be in a relationship. Whereas some doesn't likes.

Some feels that when you're in a relationship, you'll have no freedom; too much control from the other party.

For me, I feel that.. Relationship is not something you want, you will have it. It all takes effort, chance, time, and the heart. Relationship is not a game. It is not something you like, you carry on and you don't like, you just heck care. It is never something like that. When you're in a relationship, a lot of things comes together. The chemistry between each other, what they do every time to take a step deeper to understand each other, what should they do in order for them not to quarrel and many many more. I feel that, every relationship is a lesson learnt.

I've been together with my boyfriend for 302 days and few months more, we'll be celebrating our anniversary. Frankly speaking, we're just like other couples out there. Go out when we've free time, do all sorts of childish/funny/stupid things.. Yep, thats what we do to keep our relationship going on!

A lot of times, we quarrelled. Still remember one time because of my colleague(k it's a guy), we almost broke up. He was the one who intended it, but I made my stand that we'll never break up unless I agree to it. After much talkings here and there, problem solved. And it takes time to make us stand strong together again.

"In relationship, it's not about who's wrong, who's right. It's about how both parties can come together and solve it to prevent it from happening again."

Every quarrels is a lesson learnt. Both parties must make sure either of them won't make the same mistake again.

"When the same mistake happens, it is not by accident, it is by choice."

Being in a relationship and making it last is not difficult, and neither it's easy too. It takes two hands to clap. Both need to work hard together, understand each other, give each other freedom, know what they one, make time for each other and a lot more. It is like, a growing-up process. I feel that being in a relationship makes one more matured, both physically and mentally. If you have anything in mind, feel free to tell him/her. Anything, both can sit down and talk. And not keep it from him/her.

All relationships have it-be it happy, sad, angry, touching, sweet moments. You just need to know how to handle it. Both need to put in as much effort. It's not like "Hey, it's okay if you don't love me as much as I do. I'll just do my part as a girlfriend ok?" Bullshit. Then I suggest you guys break up to find someone that suits you.

Actually when being in a relationship, guys is in a more losing end(吃亏) situation compared to girls. Because guys need to pay for everything when going out with a girl(and if your boyfriend doesn't do that, dump him!), plan events and etc. Hahaha so actually being a girl is not that bad either. I MEAN WHEN COMES TO RELATIONSHIP.

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So ya....... I'm getting bored with all these words already. I'm not fit to blog this kind of wordy posts haha.

Last advice: Please be smart when you're in a relationship. Don't anyhow let guys eat you up.

AND ALWAYS KEEP PROMISE!!! No cheating or lying is allowed in a relationship.