1) I hate it when people jump to conclusion.
I guess everyone hates it. Like, hello? Why look at us like we've done something wrong when we didn't do before? It is seriously not a good feeling. Ok maybe I can let it slide if I'm accused for good things. But unfortunately, truth is, it doesn't happen oftenly. Most of us are always accused for bad stuffs.
If you hates me and want me to go to hell, bring it on. But please collect enough evidences even before accusing me. If you can't even produce one, then stfu. As easy as that. Think about what if I accuse without evidence? How would YOU feel? Some people are just so dumb and brainless.
If you get worked up, congratulations you have just admitted that you're dumb and brainless and you're the one that likes to jump on conclusion. Then in that case, fuck you.
When I mean evidences, I mean you actually have the video or picture or whatever then can be seen/heard to actually prove that I've done that thing. Not you heard from whosoever and jump to conclusion that I've done that fucking thing. No no no girl, you don't listen to one side of the story and anyhow jump to conclusion. If you wanna bring me to hell, please follow the rules ok??
Well I can't help it if you really wanna accuse me. If someone really does that, I'll make sure I find out whoever idiot who did that and make sure he/she get accuse for million things they'd never done before. BRING IT ON BITCH!!!
Oh and another thing. Why do parents always like to accuse their children? Like you always get scolded for nothing??? And when you're trying to explain yourself, your parents sees it as talking back and you get scolded for another round because of that? Wtf. I actually don't care whether it's someone older or respectable(but I assume those respectable people won't jump to conclusion hmmm), if they jump to conclusion and accuse me, I'm just going explain for myself.
Please. Who likes to be wrongly accused for things you didn't done before? Unless they like the person who had done something wrong so they wanna cover up for them and rather be wrongly accuse. Ok that is acceptable but is none of my business. Other than that, I find no valid reason to be "happily" wrongly accuse.
So end of story. Don't accuse people without evidence. Please follow by the rules.
2) I hate it when people borrow money and doesn't have the intention to return.
Ok lets make this clear. If you want to borrow money from me, please return asap without me asking.
I feel so.... embarrassed. To ask people to return the money that they borrowed from me. Big sum of money like $20 $30(imo it's considered big since it's borrowed), still okay but still feeling a tad bit of embarrass. Imagine like $1 $2?? I still have to go around like a loanshark asking you to pay me back? Wtf that's like utterly embarrassed!! FML
Please be considerate and have the initiative to return it! Don't you feel ashamed or embarrass to owe people money for so long yet doesn't have the intention on returning? What's more the sum is no big deal? Once or twice, I let it slide. Thrice or more, it's getting way too absurd.
You make me doesn't even want to eat with you because every time before we're going to start queuing up for food, you'll start borrowing money from people.
If you think the sum I borrowed to you is no big deal, why in the first place did you not have that little sum of money with you? Oh you mean you spent in earlier on so you have no money for your meals? Then serve you right! Starve yourself to death since you care more about spending your money on other things rather than your meal which is more important. When you've start spending on other things and save no money for your meal, it's mean you can afford to skip meals, but because you think it's alright to borrow money from your friends, so you want to eat.
Omg don't you think this kind of people is very annoying?!?!?!!?!!!11
Plus, we're talking about small sum of money here. It's really difficult to not lend them right? Like what excuses you're going to make? No small change? Then after you bought your meal/something and you've got small change, he will borrow from you again, and there's no way you can reject anymore. But some will not because they will feel ashamed in asking again and it sounds like they're really poor and desperate for money.
Another excuse will be... No money on hand? Once or twice the person who are going to borrow money from you will let it slide. After which they will start thinking you're stingy or a miser because a few dollars you also can't borrow. Then things will start going awkward between each other.
I of course don't want things to turn out awkward between me and my friends. But what if they always borrows money from me, and always doesn't returns it? You think what? I'm your ATM? Always give you free cash or rather, always provide free meals for you?
I'm gonna admit it. Even I feel a little embarrassed asking my close friends to return me money, whats more if he/she is just a friend? I may or may not remember if someone borrows money from me. And if I forgotten? You mean he/she just gets away with it? Then what about my money?
Now it's not about the sum of money!!!! It's about the person thinking. When you borrow something, return it. It's not something MORE to ask from you, it's only correct to return it. It's the same like, it's not something MORE to ask from me to lend you money, AS LONG AS YOU RETURN.
I borrow, you return = I will lend you again.
I borrow, you don't return, I'll pester you like I'm a super stingy person, and you return = And I won't lend you ever anymore.
Ok maybe sometimes I had already forgotten the incident then I will lend you. Well, then that blames my lousy memory.
Ok fine. I admit I tend to forget sometimes. I may, too, forget to return the money that I borrowed from my friend, and my friend will ask me to return. And I make sure I return. In some rare cases, I may tend to forget the 1st time my friend reminded me to return them their money, and SOME good people might just forget about it(thank you to all these people who I borrowed money from) and some people(not saying their bad) might just ask from me again. Which in my opinion I think it's ok and only right to ask me back.
I'M NOT SAYING THOSE WHO DECIDED TO DROP THE MATTER AFTER I'VE FORGOTTEN THE FIRST TIME IS WRONG. WELL, I DON'T FORCE YOU ALL TO DO THAT AND YOU ALL CAN JUST ASK ME THE 2ND TIME(WHICH WILL MAKES YOU EMBARRASSED LOL) AND I'LL CONFIRM RETURN YOU ALL!!
Thanks to those who decided to drop the matter and let me "have" the money you lent to me :)
Like what I said.............. Once or twice, it's okay!! If you really have the initiative to return the money that you borrowed, just that you keep forgetting it, then note it down. Forgetting EVERY TIME is not an excuse. Everybody tends to forget on something, so just remind them! If you don't want things to turn out awkward, I'll teach you a way.
Just pretend like you're going to borrow money from the person whom you lent money to. Like this:
A is loaner. B is the borrower.
A: "*whispers to self: Eh shit, not enough cash..* Eh B, you there got money not?"
B: "Got ah, why leh?"
A: "I here not enough money, can lend me first???" *pretends to think* "OH YA!! You still owe me $3 last time right??"
B: "Oh ya, here's your $3. You need how much?"
A: "This $3 enough liao! Don't need liao thanks ah~"
B: "Okay no prob :)"
Yay settled!! First you can test whether the person has money on hand(if don't have then too bad lol!!), second you can without awkwardness ask back your money!! =D
Sometimes I'll use that way too lol!! Or something similar to that la.
If you EASILY forgets things, advice to you is don't lend and don't borrow. Problem solved. But of course if you insist, then just jolt it down somewhere la wtf.
3) I hate people who smoke around me.
4) I hate the smell of cigarettes.
5) I hate people who are unconscious about smoking in public.
I don't hate smokers. But if you smoke, and you did one of the 3 things that I mentioned above about smoking, then I hate you.
I fucking hate it when people smoke around me, especially, in front of me.
Ugh fuck you!! I detest the smell of cigarettes and you still fucking walk in front of me and let all the smell flow to my nostrils!! Fuck you! I know you don't know, but I DON'T CARE. You should just smoke at home before you come out, and then smoke outside shopping mall or MRT stations etc where all the smokers gather there and we, people who dislike the smell of it, will know where to avoid.
Smokers should not smoke while walking at pavement because there will be kids or old people walking too, and the smell will also spread to them which is BAD FOR HEALTH.
Ok I went to googled.
Mainstream smoke - the smoke that is exhaled by a smoker
Sidestream smoke - the smoke that comes from the end of a lighter cigarette, pipe, or cigar
Even though we think of these as the same, they aren't. The sidestream smoke has higher concentrations of cancer-causing agents (carcinogens) than the mainstream smoke. And, it contains smaller particles than mainstream smoke, which make their way into the body's cells more easily.
When non-smokers are exposed to SHS it is called involuntary smoking or passive smoking. Non-smokers who breathe in SHS take in nicotine and other toxic chemicals just like smokers do. The more SHS you are exposed to, the higher the level of these harmful chemicals in your body.
Surgeon General's reports: Findings on smoking, secondhand smoke, and health
● SHS kills children and adults who don't smoke.
● SHS causes disease in children in adults who don't smoke.
● Smoking by parents can cause wheezing, coughing, bronchitis, and pneumonia, and slow lung growth in their children.
● There is no safe level of exposure to SHS. Any exposure is harmful.
See? Even those who didn't smoke gets into all those cancer disease!! It is so unfair to us. Screw whoever invent cigarettes. It's not good for health, pollute the environment, and causes disease to people who DON'T SMOKE or even kills people who DON'T SMOKE.
How the fuck is that even fair to us when we can't even avoid it.
Government should just banned cigarettes in Singapore. Fuck cigarettes.
I really hate when people gets drag down for something they didn't do but just can't do anything about it.
