Have you ever wondered what it's like to be pretty and popular among everyone else? Yet some are struggling to make friends.
Have you ever wondered what it's like to be ugly and fat and unpopular? Yet people are teasing and making fun of people with flaws.
Have you ever get teased before? Have you ever get despise before?
HAVE YOU EVER CONSIDERED PEOPLES' FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS???
Everybody wants to be good-looking, with nice figure, nice hair, nice features. Everybody wants to have good results, be popular among everyone else and be wealthy. Everybody wants to be at the top. But not everybody can have the ability to reach there. We are just born like that. Nobody is perfect.
So before you start commenting and picking out on peoples' flaws and judge, THINK. It's not like they want it. It's not like they want to be born this way, be judged and commented. It's not like they like it this way. They also want to feel pretty and be popular among people. They also want to get praises from people and be good-looking in pictures.
I do understand looks does not mean everything. But it means a lot. To many of the people out there. Looks attract people attention. But it is the attitude and character that make people stay. But if you don't have the looks, how can you make that extra effort to make people stay for you? It's hard. So so much harder for people who does not have the capability to attract people attention. Yet they can't do anything. They themselves can't help it either.
The feeling just SUCKS. Have you felt that way before? Like you just hate how God created you but you can't do anything about it. You tried to make yourself look better, look nicer, look more presentable. People still didn't notice you. Sometimes, they tried SO MUCH to improve themselves but still can't do much, that's when they stop doing whatever they are doing. Because nothing helps. Most people try to be better in everything. But the moment they tried and tried and tried, but they are still stuck at the same place, same position - that's when people thought it's useless to try anymore, because no matter how hard they tried, the results will still be the same. So why waste the time?
But deep down inside, they are feeling TERRIBLE. The exact feeling when you work so hard for one thing but the results are not what you expected. When you already did and try so much, but still can't get what you want... But this is life. We are just gonna suck it in, and continue with life. That's how we should be dealing, isn't it?
It's not like they are asking for everything - to have very slender figure and super good-looking features. They just want to be average-looking with average body size. Is that a lot to ask for? It's because every humans judge thus making people like them feeling so terrible because they are not good enough for them. They get rejected most of the time thus making them think. "What is it that I'm so unpopular?" "Why am I always getting judge at?" "Why am I not pretty like her?" So so so so much more.
FOR GOD'S SAKE IT'S NOT LIKE PEOPLE WANT TO BORN THIS WAY. SO LEARN TO ACCEPT THEM LIKE HOW THEY ACCEPT THEMSELVES AND STOP JUDGING AND COMMENTING ON THEIR FLAWS. PUT YOURSELF INTO THEIR SHOES BEFORE YOU JUDGE. They are already feeling so terrible inside, you don't have to comment on them and make them feel worse. They know better about themselves than you. They know what they are lacking at and what to improve on. YOU don't have to stare at them with weird faces and comment on them. It's always better to keep your comments to yourself. Keep your mouth shut unless they ask your for opinions. Don't make them feel even worse when they are feeling so terrible inside knowing their flaws and what they are lacking of. And people are there, commenting and judging on them, when they themselves have flaws too. Aren't people like them being SO annoying here? Human nature sometimes can be so disgusting.
BUT. Then again. If people know what they are lacking of and their flaws, they should work and improve on it instead of always complaining. "Why do these people like to dress up and doll up so much? Attention-seeker much?" "You think fashion parade ah?"
Come on. Admit it. You too want attention. But you've got none of that thus you're jealous of people who got the attention you yearn for. Why be jealous and hate on them? Instead they should encourage you to dress up and doll up, be pretty. Who don't want to be pretty? Answer is NOBODY. Everybody wants to look good. So take out some time, put in some effort, doll up. You'd see the results. And I'm sure you will love it. =D It all takes patience, encouragement, time, effort and money. BUT IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT!!! Because you just have to spend some money on pretty clothing and good makeup products, spend some time everyday to doll up, and practice everyday. You will look better. And you will definitely look great as time goes by since practice makes perfect!! ^.^
Unless you are totally fine with how you are born, and you don't need anything to improve yourself. Great!! Natural is always the best. But not everybody can pull off with that. BUT. If you chose to not makeup, wear pretty clothing, you have NO rights to criticize on people who does that. Keep that in mind.
Because when you do, you are just being a jealous bitch who criticize on people improving themselves when you don't need it. Don't be a sour bitch..... You're just making yourself look hilarious HAHAHA.
And when you do that..... That's right. Karma hits right back on you.
So think before you start criticizing, commenting and judging. Know your limits.
BUT. Then again. If people know what they are lacking of and their flaws, they should work and improve on it instead of always complaining. "Why do these people like to dress up and doll up so much? Attention-seeker much?" "You think fashion parade ah?"
Come on. Admit it. You too want attention. But you've got none of that thus you're jealous of people who got the attention you yearn for. Why be jealous and hate on them? Instead they should encourage you to dress up and doll up, be pretty. Who don't want to be pretty? Answer is NOBODY. Everybody wants to look good. So take out some time, put in some effort, doll up. You'd see the results. And I'm sure you will love it. =D It all takes patience, encouragement, time, effort and money. BUT IT WILL ALL BE WORTH IT!!! Because you just have to spend some money on pretty clothing and good makeup products, spend some time everyday to doll up, and practice everyday. You will look better. And you will definitely look great as time goes by since practice makes perfect!! ^.^
Unless you are totally fine with how you are born, and you don't need anything to improve yourself. Great!! Natural is always the best. But not everybody can pull off with that. BUT. If you chose to not makeup, wear pretty clothing, you have NO rights to criticize on people who does that. Keep that in mind.
Because when you do, you are just being a jealous bitch who criticize on people improving themselves when you don't need it. Don't be a sour bitch..... You're just making yourself look hilarious HAHAHA.
And when you do that..... That's right. Karma hits right back on you.
So think before you start criticizing, commenting and judging. Know your limits.
And because I think I look bad without any makeup, I make the effort to wake up everyday 2 hours before school just to makeup (+ travel). That's the price I have to pay for wanting to look better. So I have no one to blame. But really. Who is to blame for people that are born with imperfections??
And studies too. Some people are born with SUCH smart minds that they don't have to study much to achieve good grades. Whereas people (like me) born with average minds need to work extra hard for that extra marks just for good grades. And sometimes, the results are just not what we wanted. And it's so depressing. Because you work hard for so many days/weeks just for the big day, and your mind decided to just fail on you. Sucks isn't it? Life's unfair. You just have to accept it, suck it in and move on. That's how humans react right? Nothing in this world is fair.
Anyway. I'm just typing out my thoughts that I've been keeping in my mind and thinking a few days ago... No people in particular. Of course you don't have to agree with them!
Mid Semester Test are coming. Next week. I have a few more days to study and keep up with my hardworking + smart classmates before I walk into the exam room. I hope I can do this. I know I can!! Will be back soon. :)
And studies too. Some people are born with SUCH smart minds that they don't have to study much to achieve good grades. Whereas people (like me) born with average minds need to work extra hard for that extra marks just for good grades. And sometimes, the results are just not what we wanted. And it's so depressing. Because you work hard for so many days/weeks just for the big day, and your mind decided to just fail on you. Sucks isn't it? Life's unfair. You just have to accept it, suck it in and move on. That's how humans react right? Nothing in this world is fair.
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Anyway. I'm just typing out my thoughts that I've been keeping in my mind and thinking a few days ago... No people in particular. Of course you don't have to agree with them!
Mid Semester Test are coming. Next week. I have a few more days to study and keep up with my hardworking + smart classmates before I walk into the exam room. I hope I can do this. I know I can!! Will be back soon. :)
